The Joys Of Bondage Sex
Bondage, when used in a sexual sense, is the act of tying someone up for sexual pleasure, be it there pleasure or yours. People are attracted to both sides of the equation and the most pleasure is found when a dominant person finds a submissive to tie up. There are a wide variety of techniques that can be used when practicing bondage. There is bondage that pulls the body together by using ropes, leather harnesses, straps, etc. One example of this would be tying the feet and wrists together and then attaching them to each other, completely restricting movement. You can also tie someone to another object like a chair or a bed, leaving them completely at your mercy. One of the more extreme types of bondage involves suspending the body from another object. In most cases this involves a device that hangs from a hook in the ceiling or a very strong central beam so there isn’t any damage done to the ceiling or the person being suspended. The most extreme form of bondage, at least in my opinion, involves the complete mummification of the submissive in any number of materials. I’ve seen it done with rubber outfits, saran wrap, and even a cloth sack or sleeping bag.
The choices for exploring bondage sex are nearly limitless and millions of couples around the world engage in this practice every day. There are hundreds of websites, businesses, and stores solely dedicated to providing bondage materials to people and even the simplest of adult stores features ropes and harnesses to be used in bondage. It may seem like a taboo sexual behavior but bondage is in fact a widely accepted way of building trust and love in a relationship. If you submit yourself to your partner and trust in them to keep you safe while inflicting restraint and some measure of pain on you it will build the love and trust between the two of you. Many couples undertake an interest in bondage sex because they are trying to build a stronger relationship, not necessarily because either of them has a highly sexual interest in the behavior.
At the same time there are a huge number of people in the world who are extraordinarily turned on by bondage and all the things that go along with it. For those who enjoy the dominant position they derive their sexual pleasure from completely controlling another person. They like causing pain or pleasure as they see fit. For those who enjoy the submissive position they get off on being controlled, and bondage is the ultimate surrender of control. When you lose your ability to move, or in some cases speak, you have surrendered yourself to someone else. For some people the simple of act of participating in bondage is enough to bring them sexual pleasure. They don’t desire any type of penetration or physical stimulation; to be participating in one side of the bondage is enough to give them all the pleasure they need. It’s a rare and precious thing to be so attuned to your body and I applaud all those who are into bondage in this way.
