So You’re Interested In Bondage Sex?

So you’ve been reading on the internet about bondage and checking out a few porn sites that specialize in bondage content and you think it sounds pretty good and you’d like to give it a try yourself. If that’s the case then this article should provide you with a decent introduction into the world of bondage and get you on your way to success in fetish.

First off, it’s important to understand what bondage is exactly. Bondage involves people being restrained in some manner for sexual pleasure. There are a huge variety of restrains that can be used, ranging from simple ropes to bind your hands and feet to complicated clothing pieces that restrain the cock or breasts. The world of bondage equipment is incredibly wide ranging – there are huge online superstores that specialize solely in bondage equipment of various shapes and sizes. In a typical bondage sex situation there will be a dominant and a submissive partner. The submissive will be restrained at the whims of the dominant. Typically a safe word is used in case too much pain is caused or the submissive feels as though he’s in imminent danger.

If you’re still into trying out bondage sex after reading that basic information then let’s get started. The first thing you’ll need is a partner. Make sure that your partner position is complimentary to yours (one dom, one sub) and that you have a good level of trust established. The submissive in the situation needs to believe that they won’t be put into harms way when practicing bondage or they won’t be able to release themselves to enjoy the situation. If you already have a significant other that is willing to try bondage sex with you that would be ideal. If not it’s perfectly viable to use a site like Alt.com or a bondage personals page to locate someone experienced in your area to break you in.

The first time you practice bondage sex it would be wise to take is slow. Don’t jump right into painful cock and ball restrictions and elaborate knots and such. The first time try using a simple nylon rope for restraint. Tie the hands together, tie the feet together, and then run a rope between the two in order to restrain movement. This is a very simple practice that acts as a nice introduction. You won’t be able to move and there won’t be any difficulty setting up the knots. You can also use the nylon rope, if it’s thin enough, on the cock and balls for restraint. If you enjoy the first session you can head to your local sex shop or buy bondage gear off the internet to up the ante a little bit.

The world of bondage sex is enormous and you can spend years exploring its various ins and outs. You can introduce an element of pain infliction to your practice if you’re looking for more arousal, or you can simply stick with restraints. Most of all it’s important to be safe and smart. If you’re cock and balls are tied off and they’re getting purple and starting to hurt make sure you untie them. Lack of blood flow is a good way to kill an area of your body. In general the more pain something is causing the more dangerous the behavior is, so be smart.