How To Find Yourself A Submissive Female & What To Do Once You Have
For many men the idea of a submissive female willing to perform any sexual action they desire is a dream. Most men would kill for a woman like that, but what they don’t realize is that there are millions of women like that all around the country just waiting to be plucked up and told what to do. However, locating a submissive female is the easy part. Convincing her to submit to you and handling the responsibility with class once it’s your is the difficult part.
The drive behind submission is the desire to relinquish sexual control and be pleasing to one’s partner. Some women need to release control of a situation in order to feel sexual at all, and any woman deeply into being submissive needs to release control in order to achieve her greatest sexual pleasures. Because of the primitive drive to enjoy sexual experiences many women openly pursue being submissive, truly submissive, in sexual relationships. That makes it relatively easy to find a submissive woman. However, your competition will be fierce so you’ll have to make the right moves in order to get her to be your submissive.
First, let’s find you a submissive. The easiest and smartest way of locating a submissive female is to use an online personals site. My favorite is Alt.com because they have millions of members and everyone is there to live out a fetish fantasy. You’ll find thousands of girls who list themselves as submissive. Simply pick a few that you like and send out some emails.
Your first contact, the email you’ll be sending, will end up being the most important contact you make. First impressions last forever so you need to come across as a true dominant. You need to be oozing confidence. Don’t start any sentences with “Would you like to?” or “Can I?” Everything you say should be an affirmative statement without being too bossy or overbearing. Don’t act like you’re already her dom, just that you’d be a very good dom if you were given the chance. Make absolutely sure that you don’t come off as needy or begging, nothing will turn a girl off faster than that.
In most cases the girl will want to setup a meeting so she can check you out before going to a second location for a sexual encounter. Dress impressively, no shorts or t-shirts. You need to look commanding, so lose the sneakers as well. Be sure to maintain eye contact at all times when you meet her, although you shouldn’t be trying to bore into her skull. Don’t hang your head, don’t make self deprecating jokes. Once again it’s all about confidence, especially if you want her to accept you as a true dominant and submit herself to you completely. Be sure to touch her intermittently in a strong and assertive way. A strong hand on her arm or leg will do the trick.
Once you’ve been approved and are headed to the second sure that you maintain your confidence. Don’t worry about your sexual performance you’re the size of your dick. None of that matters. Make sure that you know ahead of time what she likes as a submissive. Does she need to be humiliated? Does she like to be smacked on the ass or have her hair pulled? It’s possible she’ll want all of those things done, but make sure you don’t do any of it until you confirm it with her. Once you have the proper information go forth with confidence and have a good time.
