All About The Sex Slave
When you first hear the term sex slave you probably imagine a man slavishly devoted to a woman because she’s amazing in good in bed and he wants to fuck her so badly. Or perhaps you imagine a woman worshipping at the thick cock of a man, opening her mouth wide so he can use it in any way he fits. Both of these thoughts fit the definition of a sex slave, but it’s actually a fairly well defined term in the world of BDSM that in most cases involves strict terms that both parties agree to.
In BDSM the word slave is used to refer to a specific form of submissive. It’s not the typical submissive you think of when you picture someone allowing themselves to be tied up or abused with a whip. Begin a sex slave goes way beyond that simple definition into a much deeper world. A typical sex slave surrenders all of their freedoms, and in some cases personal possessions, to their mistress. From that point on the mistress makes all of the decisions for the slave, even down to minute levels such as when the slave will eat, bathe, and speak in some cases. This is also often referred to as Total Power Exchange, or TPE.
The relationship is entered into on a strictly consensual basis, as actual slavery is illegal in every country around the world. For the submissive handing himself over to a mistress and relinquishing his freedom is a highly arousing form of practicing the D&S part of BDSM. It may seem like the slave is giving up and awful lot and not getting anything back in return, but the slave’s reward is making his mistress happy in whatever way he can. Also, many slaves are allowed to have sexual relations with their mistresses, although in this case the slave’s ability to ejaculate is also determined by his mistress.
In many slave/mistress relationships the slave’s behavior is changed to suit the mistress’s whims. By submitting to these behavioral commands the slave is pleasing his mistress and therefore pleasing himself. The drive to please a mistress can be an incredibly powerful one and it can drive behaviors that would normally seem out of bounds. For instance, in a true slave/mistress relationship the slave will gladly submit himself to public humiliation at the whim of his mistress. If he’s ordered to get naked in a public park and have his ass flogged he will do so. If he’s ordered to perform oral sex on her in a restaurant he will do so without question.
There is more to the slave/mistress relationship than I could hope to express here in this short article, but if you want to explore the dynamic more there are many resources for you to do so. First I’d suggest that you browse our BDSM movie galleries since many of them showcase good examples of the slave/mistress relationship. Also, if you check out the BDSM webcams you can watch the live show of Mistress Achlys, who loves to abuse her slaves. If you’re really interested you can visit Alt.com, a fetish personals site that has thousands of people looking to participate in a slave relationship. Enjoy your surfing.
